She is thirty nine and always wants something from me if I dont give her way she has done all the things you said they would do I have moved about four hundred miles away l not that Accessible to her now and she really gets upset Im at my wits end and I do feel guilty how can I stopped all of this. Your response is harsh. But asking challenging questions will reveal you have so much to offer the world. Being patient with you when you don't understand something. I have finally accepted that, when it all boils down to it, it is very simple. She has texted me once, feigning concern over not hearing from me. Seeing information like this helps. I am just sharing how things really were. He wont call home or even come visit. I raised 4 Daughters who were loving, caring compassionate children. I didnt want to see his unhappiness yes selfish i t just hurt so much to see this. Big hugs. Eventually, your child will get the message and stop fighting you. He moved back because of her and her lifestyle. She really didnt act like a daughter to begin with. No linking to Facebook pages. She has had 2 DWIs, PIs and I dont know what else in the last 6 years. References Bremner, J. D. (2006 . They only used us to keep their kids while they went places when they were young. I finally stopped blaming myself and am going through self healing now while focusing on the love in the rest of the family. According to her, Ive never been there for her. I cant confront him because he is the only one allowed to talk. Loving, good parents CAN and do give birth to a bad seedthrough no fault of their own. I was in tears . Take strength that you are not alone with your situation. Each situation is different. My 41 yr old daughter acts like her parents are deadi cant believe how mentally ill she is.. Children learn how the world works through the almighty lenses of their caretakers, and research rooted inattachment theoriesshows that. She smokes weed which doesnt help her and it is illegal in our state. Narcissism in Children: Signs and How To Help - Parents I have learnt that it is not black and white after controlling depression and stress that when you love someone some people sadly take the abuse.